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How To Make A Guy Cum Fast & Powerfully: 4 Killer Tips

It’s All About Enthusiasm 

A major component of turning your man on is satisfying his ego (not just his penis). When you are enthusiastic about sex, it’s a powerful subconscious signal to your man that you are attracted to him and turned on by being with him. This is massively satisfying for his ego, which turns men on in an incredibly powerful way.

When you are not very responsive and involved during sex, you are doing the opposite. You are sending your man a subconscious signal that you are not that turned on by him and not that attracted to him. As a result, you are saying to his ego that you don’t think much of him. This is exactly what you shouldn’t do if you want to turn him on and make him cum hard.

I call this problem Starfish Syndrome. It’s as if you are a starfish, just lying there with your legs, arms and head pretty much motionless. It’s the one thing that is a major turn off to almost all guys.

While I don’t really recommend learning sex techniques and maneuvers from watching pornography, one thing that you will notice from watching porn is that all the female pornstars are very enthusiastic and active in every scene.


Because it turns men on and ultimately makes them cum a lot harder.

Find Out What He Likes 

Everyone has a fantasy, specific sex technique or position that turns them on much more than regular sex. You need to find out what your man’s fantasies are. This is going to make him orgasm and cum much harder than when you are doing plain old missionary position with him.

It could be something really normal like you dressing up and roleplaying or it could be a bit more ‘out there’. It’s absolutely vital that you keep an open mind and are not judgmental when discussing it with your man along with being excited to try something new with him.

The Build Up 

Sometimes a quickie feels great. But if you want your man to have an orgasm so hard, that he shoots his load across the room, then you need to slowly build up to it. To slowly build up to orgasm can start many hours before you even see him. Try sending him a few dirty texts before you see him to build the sexual tension and titillate him with things to come. If you are both out together in public or at a party, turn up the sexual tension by saying something like:

I can’t wait till were alone, I’ve got a sexy surprise for you!


If we weren’t in a public place right now, I would fuck your brains out!

It’s up to you how sexual you want to be.

When you say something like this it will turn your man on a lot because of your intentions. But as you can’t actually do anything about it (as there are other people around), it builds sexual tension also. So when you do eventually get alone with your man, he will literally want to rip your clothes off.

When you are both alone together, you have to keep taking things really slowly. Start by kissing him passionately and then move on to very slowly giving him a soft and satisfying hand job (but make sure that he doesn’t cum!). From here, you can move on to sucking his cock or having sex.

The Release 

When your man does reach orgasm after this slow but steady build up, he will explode and cum really hard.

IMPORTANT NOTE: During this whole build up, your man may want to cut to the chase and have sex immediately. Don’t let him. You have to keep a good amount of control and keep slowly building up to sex. Then when your man does eventually cum, he will be thankful that he waited!


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