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6 Fun Ways To Be More Sexually Adventurous

But what if I am not that sexually adventurous?

Firstly, it’s important to understand that you don’t necessarily have to be sexually adventurous in bed. You don’t have to use all or any of the great information that you can find here. It’s here as a reference (& inspiration!). But it’s up to you to decide whether or not you actually want to use it.

Just because other people seem to be doing all these crazy things with their sex lives, it doesn’t mean that you should feel forced into doing those things too. You need to do what you feel comfortable with. Don’t let me or anyone else try to tell you otherwise.

But if you have read this far, you probably want to read some tips that will help you take your skills to the next level in the bedroom. Here goes…

1. Becoming More Sexually Adventurous – Your Attitude

The first stage to becoming more sexually adventurous involves a positive attitude.
I’m not talking about some ‘woo-woo’ attitude, where you sit and mediate or anything like that.

When I say ‘positive attitude’, I really mean having the frame of mind where you are more enthusiastic about new sexual experiences, whether they are games, positions, techniques or something else.

Think about that movie from 2008 called Yes Man, where Jim Carrey starts saying yes to more opportunities that arise and as a result he has some really fun and crazy experiences.
Now I am certainly not saying that you should say yes to every single thing that someone suggests, as you need to keep your safety as priority #1.

But you should at least consider having a more open attitude to trying new things with your man, even if they sound faintly ridiculous.

So Saying ‘Yes’ & Having A Positive Attitude = Becoming More Sexually Adventurous, Right?

That’s pretty much what I am saying, provided you stay safe.

So should I purchase a book on Kama Sutra to learn new things?
You could, but there is no need to start spending money if you want to learn tactics & techniques for the bedroom.

You’ll find a wealth of information right here for free.

2. Oral Fixation

I’d like to think that I have created the worlds greatest resource on oral sex tips for women. I cover some really awesome blowjob tips and oral sex techniques.

3. Expanding Your Sex Position Repertoire

Learning new love making positions should be high on your to-do list if you are serious about becoming more sexually adventurous. Without a doubt, you will never get tired of all the different sex positions that you’ll find in my sex position guide.

4. Your Sexual Vocabulary

While learning new sex positions to use with your man along with learning how to give an awesome blow job is certainly important, there are other great ways to become more sexually adventurous with your man.

Talking dirty is a great one as it can be used in the bedroom as well as outside it to keep things spicy.

You can even send him dirty text messages and talk dirty on the phone to him when you are not together to keep him thinking about you.

5. Explore Your Dominant & Submissive Sides

A lot of people are more sexually submissive than sexually dominant. They prefer for their partner to be the one to take control in the bedroom.

If you prefer being the submissive one in bed, then it’s no big deal. But if you want to become more sexually adventurous then it’s time to start exploring your dominant side. The next time you are home alone with your man, grab him and drag him into the bedroom.
Push him onto the bed, jump on top of him and rip his clothes off.

If you’ve never done this before then your man is going to be pleasantly surprised.
But becoming more dominant in bed doesn’t necessarily have to involve something like this.
It could be as simple as initiating sex when you are both already in bed or unbuttoning his trousers and giving him a blowjob when he’s not expecting it or pulling him in towards you to kiss him or giving him a back massage when he’s not expecting it.

The whole idea of exploring your dominant and submissive sides with your man is to show him that you are multi-dimensional, that there is more than one side to you in the bedroom.

6. One Last Thing

A crucial aspect to accelerate your progress in becoming more sexually adventurous is……Your Man.

Often people underestimate this, but your man plays a vital role in helping you to become more sexually adventurous.

The most important trait that your man needs to have is that he makes you feel comfortable and at ease when you are around him. If he is overly domineering or too much of an ‘alpha-male’ then you may feel intimidated when it comes to trying new things and becoming more sexually adventurous.

Try to keep this in mind when you are getting started on your path to becoming more sexually adventurous. This tip is more for people who are looking for a guy to experiment with as opposed to a guy who you are already seeing.

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