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Kneeling BJ Position

The Kneeling Blowjob position is we would consider to be the ‘standard’ bj position for giving a guy a blowjob when he is standing up. To perform the kneeling Kneeling Blow Job position on your man, you simply need face him and then get down on your knees while your man remains standing upright.

This will mean that your head will be pretty much in line with his groin area like in the illustration, making it easier to give him a blowjob. 

Why You Should Love The Kneeling Blow Job Position Even though the Kneeling Blow Job position is seen by many as the ‘standard’ bj position and sometimes even a little boring, many still consider it to be the best BJ position of all as there are many variations of it and you don’t need to be flexible to perform it. You can also quickly get into a kneeling position in a matter of seconds which makes it perfect for when you and your man get caught up in the heat of the moment.

Using the Kneeling Blow Job position, you can give your man a blowjob while he…

10 Fascinating Facts About Sex

Sex is one of life’s pleasures and it is practiced by most people at least once in their lifetime. This list takes a look at some more unusual sex facts and sex related topics. Feel free to add your own interesting facts to the comments.
10. Weight loss Fascinating Fact:Sexual acts lead to weight loss
The average human loses 26 calories when kissing for a minute. Furthermore, vigorous sex for half an hour burns 150 calories (you can lose three pounds in a year – if you have sex 7 to 8 times a month). Kissing is also very good for your teeth: the extra saliva released during the act helps to keep the mouth clean – reducing the risk of decay. 
9. Pubic WigsFascinating Fact: In Victorian times, whores wore pubic wigs
The pubic wig (merkin) has been around since the 1400s when it was originally worn by women who had shaved their pubic hair off to prevent lice. In the Victorian times it was frequently worn by prostitutes who wanted to conceal the fact that they had diseases like syphilis (H…

X Marks The Spot Sex Position

The X Marks The Spot sex position is just a variation of the regular Missionary position. It’s great to try out if you find that you are getting bored of Missionary and want something similar but different. 

To perform this sex position, you need to lay on your back while your man is on top. The X Marks The Spot position get’s the ‘X’ part from the fact that your bodies will form an X when viewed from above. If you are lying on your back your head at the top of the bed where the pillows usually are, your man will be lying across the bed, with his head by one side of the bed and his feet by the other side of the bed.

What The Girl Does In The X Marks The Spot Position When in the X Marks The Spot position, you will initially find it to be a little challenging and even awkward. But that should change after a few minutes. You’ll find that you can thrust back against your man just as you would when performing regular Missionary. When thrusting back against your man, you won’t get as much cl…

Wheel Barrow Sex Position

The Wheel Barrow sex position is more a test of strength than a fun and enjoyable sex position for you and your man. But it can be fun to try once or twice if you find that things are starting to get stale in the bedroom. It’ll certainly spice up your sex life. 

To perform the Wheel Barrow, think back to when you were in school and had ‘wheel barrow’ races. You would be facing towards the ground, resting a large part of your weight on your hands with your arms extended. Your man would then be standing in between your legs and holding them while you walk forward. The Wheel Barrow sex position is almost identical to this. You need to do everything the same as you normally would, except your man will be much closer to you this time so that he can penetrate you.

What You Do In The Wheel Barrow PositionWhen you are in the Wheel Barrow position, you will find that your arms and hands get tired incredibly quickly. You may find that you are exhausted after less than a minute of performing it. A…

Washing Machine Sex Position

The Washing Machine sex position is the one position that you absolutely must have one specific piece of equipment: a washing machine.

The cool thing about washing machines is that they are never in the bedroom meaning that you need to use a different room in your house to have sex in which is way more exciting!

Once you have found a washing machine, put some dirty clothes inside it and turn it on to a high spin setting. Next, you need to lean over it while still standing, just like in the Burning Man position. This will help to bring your groin area in closer contact with the vibrating washing machine. Your man will then enter you from behind and start thrusting into you while standing. 

What You Do In The Washing Machine Position The Washing Machine position is one in which your man must take control and be dominant, while you just need to relax, let go and enjoy yourself. But if you want, you can be quite active too.

Most washing machines are beside a wall, so you can put your hands o…

Viennese Oyster Position

The Viennese Oyster is quite an unusual position that needs you to have a large amount of flexibility and suppleness. As you can see in the picture above, to perform it, you need to lay on your back. You then have to grab your legs and spread them while also pulling them backwards. 

Eventually you will have pulled them back so far that you knees will be touching the bed (or almost touching it) on either side of you. You can then put your arms on top of your legs (at the back of your knees) which will keep your legs in place. If you find this easy to do, you can experiment by then putting your legs further back behind your head.

Your man then penetrates you while on his knees, just as he would when in the deckchair position.

What The Girl Does In The Viennese Oyster Position When you are performing the Viennese Oyster, your legs won’t be able to move a whole lot. The most you can do is either masturbate yourself or rub your man’s chest. 

What The Guy Does In The Viennese Oyster Position If…

Twister Sex Position

The Twister sex position is one of the most exotic that you’ll find here. When you perform it, it looks really ‘out there’. But like I always say, just because a lovemaking position is exotic, doesn’t mean that it’s better than more traditional ones. Also, just to be clear, the Twister sex position has nothing to do with the game called Twister. It has plenty to do with awesome sex though. 

To perform the Twister sex position with your man, you first need to lie down on your side, say your right side. Your man will also be lying down on his right side, with his stomach facing your stomach, but you will be lying head-to-toe with your man. This means that your head should be close to his feet. Both of you need to bend your left knees and raise them towards the ceiling. This will create a gap between his legs (and yours). 

You then need to lean forward and push your body through this gap so that your man’s raised left leg is now above your waist, with you under it, but above his right leg.…

Turtle Sex Position

The Turtle sex position is a type of Doggy Style sex that requires a little bit of flexibility. It’s an easy way to spice things up with your man when you are starting to get bored with regular Doggy Style.

To get into the Turtle position, you first need to be resting on your knees on the floor or bed. When in this position, lower yourself downwards so that your butt is sitting on top of the back of your ankles. Next lean as far forward as you can. You can grab hold of your legs in front of you to help lean further forward. Your man will be on his knees behind you penetrating you. He may find that he needs to adjust his height to make it easier for himself by either spreading his knees or bringing them together.

What Does The Girl Do In The Turtle Position When you are in the Turtle position, you’ll find that you can barely move. This is great if you like your man taking control during sex while you remain fairly inactive. One great thing about the Turtle position is that it can feel in…

Tug Of Love Sex Position

The Tug Of Love sex position is probably the last position that you could dream up of yourself. 

To get into the Tug Of Love, your man first needs to lie down on the bed on his back with his legs open. You then need to sit down on top of him and let him enter you, with your legs on either side of him in front you. Next, you need to start leaning backwards until you are lying down on the bed (put your arms behind you to ease yourself down). Your head should be close to his feet. You can rest your legs on his chest or on either side of him, whichever is more comfortable.

Now that you are both lying down, your man should grab your hands/arms so that he can pull you in towards him. He could potentially rub your feet, which is perfect if you have a foot fetish.

What The Girl Does In The Tug Of Love Position When you first try out the Tug Of Love position, you may find it to be a little weird and that it takes a little while to get used to. That’s perfectly normal.

When you are comfortable, yo…

Thigh Tide Sex Position

The Thigh Tide sex position is a really fun and easy to perform sex position. It’s perfect to use if you find that you are getting bored from all the regular sex positions with your guy. 

To perform it, your man needs to start out by lying on his back with his legs straight and spread slightly apart. Then he needs to raise one knee slightly and plant his foot on the bed. You then need to put one knee on either side of his bent leg and sit down on his crotch while facing away from him. You then need to use your legs to raise yourself up and down on him. Make sure to hold onto your man’s leg to help steady yourself.

What The Girl Does In The Thigh Tide PositionThe Thigh Tide position is quite unlike any sex position that you will have tried before. Your legs will be doing most of the work, pushing yourself up and down on him, but you can hold onto his leg with your arms to help pull yourself up and down.

One of the really cool things about Thigh Tide is that you can bring your clitoris in…

Teaspooning Position

To Teaspoon with your man (or perform the Teaspooning position), your guy needs to get onto his knees on either the bed or the floor. He then needs to open his knees fairly wide. You then need to get on your knees also while facing in the same direction as your man in front of him.
You should have your knees together so that your man can come up close behind you and then enter you. When he does, he should wrap his arms around you. He can put them around your waist or on your breasts or under your arms to hold onto your shoulders. Getting into the Teaspooning position from regular Doggy Style sex is easy. 

What The Girl Does In The Teaspooning Position When in the Teaspooning position with your man, you have the option of letting him take control and doing all the thrusting and grinding. But if you like, you can bounce up and down on your knees and do a lot of the thrusting as well.

You can also put your arms backwards around your man’s waist or back and around his neck while he is kissi…

Sybian Sex Position

The Sybian sex position gets its name from the Sybian machine. This is a powerful vibrator in a box that you need to straddle in a manner quite like the Cowgirl position, with a knee on either side of it on the bed. 

Performing the Sybian sex position is similar to this, but is has some differences. The first is that your man will be on either a bed of cushions or a soft-cushioned seat/stool. He will be lying on his back/butt.

You will still be straddling your man like in the Cowgirl position, except instead of resting on your knees on either side of him, you will be on your feet or will have them in midair while you are sitting in his lap facing him. You can put your hands on your man or on either side of him to help keep yourself balanced. 

What The Girl Does In The Sybian Position When in the Sybian position with your man, you are going to be using your legs to push yourself up and down on him. You can also grind on him slowly by keeping him inside you and thrusting forwards and backw…

Speed Bump Sex Position

The Speed Bump sex position is one that falls under the category of Sexercise with your man. This is because you will be using your core muscles to keep yourself stabilized on a fitness ball (sometimes called an exercise ball, fitness ball or gym ball; it’s a large rubber inflatable ball). 

To set it up, you are first going to need a fitness ball. You need to lie on top of it with your stomach, balancing with your hands in front of you. If it’s small enough, then you can also put your feet on the ground behind you to help keep yourself balanced. If not, then just use your hands and keep your legs in the air. Your man will then enter you from behind just like he would in the Life Raft or Superwoman positions. He can then hold on to your legs or waist

What The Girl Does In The Speed Bump Position When in the Speed Bump position, you need to focus most of your energy on keeping your balance. This will be easier if the fitness ball is a small one. But you can also make it easier by jamming …

Superwoman Position

The Superwoman position may sound like one of those positions where you need to be like ‘Superwoman’ and do a lot of work. Luckily this is not the case at all; your man will be doing most of the work. In some ways, he Superwoman is quite like the Life Raft position. 

To perform the Superwoman, you need to lie down on your bed on your belly, with you arms resting on the bed, stretched out in front of you. While your stomach should be on the bed, your waist will be at the edge with your legs hanging over the side. Your man will then enter you while standing from behind and will start thrusting in and out.

What The Girl Does In The Superwoman Position When you are in the Superwoman position, you’ll find that it’s difficult to do anything at all as you are lying down on your stomach and your legs will either be in the air, being held by your man or lightly touching the ground. If you want, you can use your arms to gently push yourself back onto your man as he is penetrating you.

You can als…

Stairway To Heaven Sex Position

The Stairway To Heaven sex position is really just a variation of regular Doggy Style. The nice thing about it is that you are performing it with your man on stairs.

Before you do anything, I would first advise you to try out the Stairway To Heaven position on stairs that are covered in carpet. If you do it on a hard staircase, you may find it makes your knees and elbows sore.

You need to set yourself up so that your knees are on a lower step and you hands are on a higher step. It’s really up to you how far you want to stretch yourself out. Because your man then enters you from behind, he may find it a bit tricky to get his height right. If he stands on the step below your knees, then he may still be above you. If so, he can just bend his knees to lower himself down to you or you can raise or lower your hips. 

What The Woman Girl Does In The Stairway To Heaven Position When you are in the Stairway To Heaven position, you are going to be fairly passive with your man taking a much more act…

Stand & Carry Position

The Stand & Carry position is unlike virtually every other sex position. You don’t need a bed or a sofa to perform it. Instead, your man is going to be standing up for it, and he will be holding you off the ground. This won’t work for every couple.

Lifting you up is the hardest part of the Stand & Carry. It’s easiest is if you start off in a position like the Butterfly with you lying down on your back on a bed or a table while your man is standing. Your man can then lean over you, and you can put your arms around the back of his neck and wrap your legs around his waist. Your man can put his arms around your waist or butt before standing up straight while holding you. 

Alternatively, you can both start off standing and facing each other like in the Slow Dance position. While inside you, your man can put his hands around your butt/waist and pick you up. When your man picks you up you can then wrap your legs around him. 

What The Girl Does In The Stand & Carry Position When your…

Sideways Sex Position

The Sideways sex position is just a variation of the Spooning position with your man. It’s often called the Side-by-Side sex position too. It’s splendid for those of you who are a little bigger and find regular Spooning to be difficult. 

To get into the Sideways position with your man, just lie on your side with him also lying on his side right behind you. You then need to lean forwards and bring your legs towards your chest while still lying on your side. You can vary how close you pull your legs to your chest to change the angle that your man is penetrating you at. Meanwhile, your man will stay in pretty much the same position.

What The Girl Does In The Sideways Position When you are in the Sideways position, you just need to move around by leaning forwards or backwards and bending your legs or straightening them out. You will also be in a position to rub yourself to help you orgasm and even finger yourself if you are having anal sex with your man.

You can put your top arm backwards t…

Spread Legs Sex Position

The spread legs sex position is a fun change from having sex in the Drill position or Missionary position. It’s also great because it’s quite easy to do too!

You first need to start out by lying on your back with your legs open as you normally would when your man is on top. Your man will then straddle you just during regular Missionary sex. But instead of wrapping your legs around him, you need to keep them open and pointing in the air in a ‘V’ shape.

Now you may be thinking that you must keep your legs in a perfect ‘V’ shape. You don’t have to. In fact, if you did, you would find them getting tired really quickly. So feel free to bend them if they are getting sore. 

What Does The Girl Do In The Spread Legs Position The spread legs position is one in which your man will be taking on a very dominant role while you will be in a more submissive role. You don’t need to be really active when performing the spread legs position…but it’s always nice for him when you are!

The great thing about t…

Spooning Sex Position

Spooning is one of the classics along with the Missionary, Cowgirl and Doggy Style sex positions. It’s not a sex position for rough or ‘hardcore’ sex. Instead it’s more for those who enjoy slow, intimate sex with their man as your bodies are in full contact with each other.

Spooning is really easy. It’s a lot like the Sofa Spooning position except it’s performed in bed. You and your man both need to lie on your sides, facing in the same direction. Your man will be behind you and then needs to enter you. When in the Spooning position, you need to bring your top leg forward a little bit to make it easier for your man to penetrate you. Once he has entered you, he can wrap his arms around you for closeness.

What The Girl Does In The Spooning PositionWhen you are Spooning with your man, you can push back against him with each thrust. You can also play around with your position by bending forwards slightly or lifting your legs towards your stomach to change the angle that your man is enterin…

Sofa Surprise Position

The Sofa Surprise sex position sounds like that you can only perform it when on a sofa, but you can do it on an armchair, in bed or even on the floor.

For you and your man to get into the Sofa Surprise position, your man needs to sit down on a sofa as he normally would. You then need to squat down from a standing position on the sofa while facing towards him so that he can enter you. You will be squatting quite far down, so you will need a little bit of flexibility otherwise it will be uncomfortable. If you are doing the Sofa Surprise on a bed, then your man will need to sit against the headboard and can put a few pillows behind himself for support. If you are doing it on the floor, then he just needs to sit up against a wall.

What The Girl Does In The Sofa Surprise PositionWhen you are in the Sofa Surprise position with your man, your basic movement will just be up and down using your legs. You’ll find that this movement can get tiring fairly quickly. To help raise yourself up and down…

Sofa Spooning Sex Position

The Sofa Spooning sex position is a slight variation of the regular Spooning position. To perform it with your guy, you will need a full-length, comfortable sofa. Sofa Spooning makes for great sex when you are both alone on a Saturday morning and want to watch some TV.

To set yourself up in the Sofa Spooning position, your man first needs to lie down on the sofa with his back firmly against the backrest part of the couch. Then you need to lie down in front of him while facing in the same direction. Your man then enters you from behind and starts to slowly thrust into you while wrapping his arms around you.

What The Girl Does In The Sofa Spooning Position The Sofa Spooning position is excellent if you like to just relax and let your man take control. There isn’t much you need to do, other than just lying there. But if you like, then you can slowly press yourself back onto your man with each stroke.

You are also in a perfect position to slowly start masturbating yourself when Sofa Spoonin…

Sockets Sex Position

The Sockets sex position looks similar to the Scissors sex position. 

To perform the Sockets with your man, start off by lying on your back on the bed with your legs open and spread out. Then bend your knees and plant your feet on the bed. This will allow you to raise your waist and your lower back off the bed. Next, your man is going to lie on his side at the opposite end of the bed, with his penis closest to your feet and his head furthest away. He then moves down towards you so that he can enter you. If he is lying on his right side, then he is going to slide his right leg under your left leg and put his left leg over your left leg. Then to enter you, he will need to push his penis downwards which can cause a bit of strain and discomfort if his penis is not that flexible.

What The Girl Does In The Sockets PositionYou will be a position that you may have never tried before, but after a few minutes, you should get used to it. You are simply going to thrust forwards and backwards onto y…