The Deep Impact position is very similar to the Criss Cross position. It gets its name from the fact that you can have very deep penetrative sex with your man. It’s also easy to have passionate, even rough sex in this position.
You need to lie down on your back in this position and point your legs towards the ceiling (you can bend them if they are starting to become uncomfortable). Your man will be on his knees, upright, facing towards you. He can either be on the floor, lower than you, or on the bed. You need to rest your legs on his shoulders, one on each shoulder. He then grabs you by your thighs and holds you tightly while he is thrusting into you.
What The Girl Does In The Deep Impact PositionWhen you are in the Deep Impact position, you need to let your man do most of the work as it’s a position for him to feel dominant in – and for you to feel submissive. More on that here. If your man is kneeling on the floor and you are at the edge of the bed, then you can grab the edge of the bed and pull yourself in towards him with each thrust.
Your man won’t be providing much stimulation to your clit in the Deep Impact position, so you can use your hands to masturbate yourself instead.
What The Guy Does In The Deep Impact PositionYour man has a very simple and straightforward job in the Deep Impact position. He just needs to thrust in and out. That’s it! If he wants to thrust harder, then he can grab your legs to give him more leverage. He can also slightly lean over you to dominate you more and change his angle. If he wants, he can lean backward and raise your waist from the bed.
If he is on his knees on the bed, he can change his height by bringing his knees either closer together or spreading them further apart.
Things To Consider When Performing The Deep Impact Sex Position
- The Deep Impact is great for rough, passionate sex with your man. But sometimes guys get a little carried away and it can become more painful than fun for you. If your man does get a little carried away, then make sure to tell him. Great sex is about 2 people enjoying themselves. It’s not just about him having a good time, while you lie there feeling uncomfortable.
- The Deep Impact is just as good for anal sex as it is for vaginal sex.
- Instead of grabbing you by the legs, he can grab you by the arms and use them to pull you in.