The Stand & Carry position is unlike virtually every other sex position. You don’t need a bed or a sofa to perform it. Instead, your man is going to be standing up for it, and he will be holding you off the ground. This won’t work for every couple.
Lifting you up is the hardest part of the Stand & Carry. It’s easiest is if you start off in a position like the Butterfly with you lying down on your back on a bed or a table while your man is standing. Your man can then lean over you, and you can put your arms around the back of his neck and wrap your legs around his waist. Your man can put his arms around your waist or butt before standing up straight while holding you.
Alternatively, you can both start off standing and facing each other like in the Slow Dance position. While inside you, your man can put his hands around your butt/waist and pick you up. When your man picks you up you can then wrap your legs around him.
What The Girl Does In The Stand & Carry PositionWhen your man is holding you in the air, you need to carry some of your weight using your arms around the back of his neck. Your legs wrapped around his waist can also carry some of your weight.
Even though your man will be doing a lot of the thrusting, you can still pull yourself up and down on him. You can pull yourself up with your arms, and you can squeeze your legs against his waist to grip it so that you can move upwards. When in the Stand & Carry position, you can lean backwards quite a bit or hold yourself close to your man to change the angle he enters you at.
You want to be careful not to do anything to upset the balance of your bodies, which can cause you to fail.
Because you’re facing each other, you can kiss passionately to make it more intense.
What The Guy Does In The Stand & Carry PositionYour man has two jobs in the Stand & Carry position.
- Holding on to you and supporting most of your weight.
- Thrusting into you.
Things To Consider When Performing The Stand & Carry Position
- The Stand & Carry is tiring: performing it for more than 2-3 minutes is exhausting for both of you.
- Try performing the Stand & Carry up against a wall, so that your back is up against it. This will help take some of your weight meaning you and your man can last longer in it. He will also be able to fuck you with more force when you are against a wall.
- This sex position might not provide the best G-spot stimulation because you’re concerned about standing.