The Sybian sex position gets its name from the Sybian machine. This is a powerful vibrator in a box that you need to straddle in a manner quite like the Cowgirl position, with a knee on either side of it on the bed.
Performing the Sybian sex position is similar to this, but is has some differences. The first is that your man will be on either a bed of cushions or a soft-cushioned seat/stool. He will be lying on his back/butt.
You will still be straddling your man like in the Cowgirl position, except instead of resting on your knees on either side of him, you will be on your feet or will have them in midair while you are sitting in his lap facing him. You can put your hands on your man or on either side of him to help keep yourself balanced.
What The Girl Does In The Sybian PositionWhen in the Sybian position with your man, you are going to be using your legs to push yourself up and down on him. You can also grind on him slowly by keeping him inside you and thrusting forwards and backwards or in a circular motion.
When in the Sybian position, you are also in the perfect position to put on a show for your man if you like. This means that you can start rubbing your clit and breasts. While this feels nice for you, your man will also enjoy it too! When in the Sybian position you are going to be doing a lot of the work, but you have most of the control also, which means that you can lean quite far forwards or even a little backwards to change the angle of entry.
You can rest your hands on your man’s stomach or even stimulate your clit.
What The Guy Does In The Sybian PositionYour man will be fairly immobile in the Sybian position. He can gently thrust back onto you though if he wants. Other than that, the most he can do is rub your legs and waist with his hands and keep eye contact with you.
Things To Consider When Performing The Sybian Position
- Finding a soft footstool/seat with no armrests is usually the hardest part, although a pile of cushions will do.
- You may find that a fitness ball will suffice. You can also use one of these exercise balls in the Speed Bump position.
- Just because the Sybian sounds sexy and not that many people have tried it out, don’t expect it to give you way more fun and pleasure than other positions.