There are no two women who like the same things in bed. By default, that extends to the kind of orgasm they experience during a passionate encounter with a client. Some ladies have probably enjoyed only vaginal delights so far while others climax only when anal penetration is involved.
Don’t worry if you haven’t experienced intense pleasure during either of these situations. It’s perfectly normal because it varies from woman to woman. Before you read our post on all the different types of female orgasm out there, play with a sex toy or your fingers and see what gets you high. Then see if you find your preference on this list. Then talk with your date about it and get ready for a steamy night.
Some girls are blessed with the ability to have multiple orgasms during a naughty encounter. How can you tell if you had multiple climaxes, you ask? Wait a bit after the first orgasm and you should experience another earth-shattering one without there being a break in between. You can even enjoy a third one. The more, the merrier! But do remember to take a rest, otherwise you could feel some pain down under.
2. ClitoralMany women say that once their clits are stimulated the right way, they’ll come. That’s due to the fact that the clitoris has lots of nerve endings. If your partner is skilled with his hands, tongue or penis, the slightest touch will make you scream in ecstasy.
If your partner is shy or they don’t know how to bring you to an orgasm, gently tell them to tease your clitoris with the tip of their dick or tongue. They could also use one of their fingers or a sex toy. Make them go slow or hard, depending on your preference. If you feel like he or she goes too hard, tell them about it.
3. NipplesThis one might come as a surprise, but yes: you can come if the guy or lady you’re with stimulates your nipples. This can be done either by teasing or squeezing them. The reason for why it happens is that many of us women have very sensitive boobs.
There is a catch to nipple orgasms: your client has to use certain kinds of techniques to get you going. One of the methods: running her or his fingers around the areolas. Another trick is to gently have your customer suck on them or lick them.
4. AnalIf you prefer Greek over every other sex position, you might have already enjoyed the most amazing orgasms of your life. In case you want to try anal for the first time, remember to use lube – if you worry that it’s gonna be painful – and see if it does anything for you pleasure-wise. It should, because like the clit, your bottom has multiple nerve endings, too.
The trick is to approach anal with care and patience. Ask your date to start slow and tease you with their penis. In case you don’t climax through the back door, that’s totally fine. Don’t sweat it and don’t insist with this particular position because you risk hurting your ass instead of feeling pleasure.
5. G-spotThe G-spot isn’t a unicorn. It does exist and it’s not at all hard to locate: you’ll find it a couple of inches inside your cooch, on the front wall. Best use one of your fingers to make the task easier. The next time you’re with your client, direct them inside you until they also find your G-spot. All ready? Tell them to massage the little fella in a “come here, you” motion with their tongue or finger.
Not feeling pleasure from this? Try the other four methods we just mentioned. The main idea is to experiment until you find the best way to come not once, but several times.